The Hard Sell

This is the point where two facts collide. You hear a lot of white noise about the so-called delayed retirement, the I'll-have-to-work-longer-because-my-plan-was-undone tales. Those headlines create anxiousness amongst even those who are prepared to retire as planned. This group second-guesses the plan they have in place even if it is viable. And then you also hear the unbelievable number of retiring Boomers that do take the leap, a number that doesn't seem real: 10,000 Boomers are reaching retirement age each day.

Who are these people? The unprepared and the prepared hurtling headlong into older adulthood. They both had expectations of retiring based on what can only be considered now as unrealistic math. They set goals and they weren't met as planned. A few got it right. Remember, there's no shame in that miscalculation. Folks have been doing it for decades. But your plan is all you really care about and if it hasn't met your expectations, which in many instances were a bit lofty, you resign to work longer. This is where the facts collide.

You know all too well that simply working longer will add to the amount of retirement income you will have but only if you significantly increase your contributions. Few resign themselves to do both.

But the other half of the equation, the Boomers who do retire, are often caught in the same anxiety ridden place. They question whether they made the right choice and more importantly, whether the money they have amassed will serve their purpose, remains hanging over every plan as an unknown.

That purpose is often clouded with not only the unpredictable cost of longevity but whether they might have enough to take care of their heirs - a serious consideration among a wide swath of retired adults and those about to retire. This last consideration is entertained by women more so than men, statistics have uncovered, which is often surprising. Why? This same group of women approaching retirement has often saved less, another unfortunate statistic concerning women and retirement.

Those that do retire should consider where they retire. And while there are many suggestions as to what to do and how to go about it, but a quick survey of your current surroundings will offer a great many answers to your dilemma.

For instance, seniors or those about to become seniors often fail to inventory the services they may need. Once retired, your daily life will require things you had previously not considered. More than just the availability of medical services, more than the infrastructure of city services such as public transportation and well-lit and well-patrolled neighborhoods, your current location needs to stimulate you or at least have accessible stimulation to keep you mentally sharp and involved. This is not how many American cities were designed. Far too many cities and their suburbs require a car. And while this may be seen by many older Americans as a freedom, not being able to drive can imprison some seniors if they find where they live too far away from these activities. Only vast sums of retirement income can change that one item and few seniors, who essentially are on a fixed income, want to reach for their wallet or purse to pay to go shopping.

To pre-Boomers or those who are still working, where you live is not often what you can afford. If you live in the city, chances are you rent. If you live in the suburbs, chances are you have a mortgage. If you have a mortgage, chances are you can't afford it. That's a lot of "ifs" but they are an approaching nightmare for those about to retire.

While many of believe that the cities we live in should adjust to us and our current and future retirement needs, it probably won't happen soon. So retirees look to communities that cater to their needs. This ghetto-izing of seniors, much like Florida and Arizona is not only unappealing to many Boomers, it is not as healthy as it first appears. Sure, these senior-only communities do provide like-minded companionship, concentrated services and accommodations that cater to gradual aging, but they are often culturally void of the stimulation that all walks of life can provide. Being isolated is not the answer.

So what is? Cities are struggling with their finances and as a result are cutting back on services that once were taken for granted. We might be living longer but in far too many instances, your health may compromise that statistic or impact the quality of that longer life. And the cost of where you live - assuming your mortgage is paid off before you retire - is not getting cheaper. Add inflation into the mix and you have eliminated all but the most obvious choice: you have fewer options.

Of course, you can stay put in a house that might be too big and too costly to maintain. This will gradually eat away at your fixed income and reduce your opportunities to engage with the outside world. Now one plans on spending their day at McDonalds sipping bad coffee with fellow seniors, no matter how well-lit, no matter how inexpensive the house brew and no matter if the loitering rules don't apply. But take away any portion of that spendable income and you limit the choices.

Where is the right place? While there is no firm answer, you do have options. For instance, if family is important to you, be sure your family shares this thinking as well. The dynamic of marriage - and I am speaking of your children's marriage - can create some confusion. Deciding that you can rely on your children and their spouses for the help you might need is something you need to discuss well in advance of retiring.

At some point, one of your kids or their spouses may find you in their care. Perhaps not in the day-to-day sense or even the long-term care situation, but in the need to check-in, help with errands or assume a financial role. This needs to be discussed in advance, a discussion that should be instigated by you. This is no easy discussion.

You do need to tell your children what you expect from retirement, even if you are unsure. Answer the hard questions (can you afford to stay in your house for instance) and when the time comes, unfold your finances for them to see. Let them know where you stand and what your plan is.

Boomers will be sold a retirement that is unlike any other before them. If you live longer as the statistics suggest you will, what do you expect of your surroundings? What role does your community play in the decision? What role will your kids have? Retirement is much more than simply amassing cash. It is amassing support. And believe it or not, that is old school thinking, a throwback to the time when retired family members depended on their kids for everything. But those kids, who may not be thinking along the same lines as you need to be involved now, rather than later.


Paul Petillo is the Managing Editor of BlueCollarDollar.com/Target2025.com and a fellow Boomer

Baseline Decisions about Retirement: Calling it Quits

There is no accurate predictive tool to tell you what the next year, five, or ten will be like. You can’t even make an educated guess. You can make a few assumptions. But the real truth is you will be making those based on biases, illusions, and dreams that may or may not come true. So who do you cross the threshold of retirement with any degree of confidence? Perhaps a little real time preparation would be nice.

Most of the people (Boomers) thinking about retirement know one or two things: first and not the least, they no longer want to work. This sort of commitment will come from a sector of the working population who has felt the largets physical toll on their bodies. That doesn’t mean that they have labored so hard – although many do – it suggests physical exhaustion with getting up, going to workplace that no longer holds any interest other than a paycheck, and may be causing you more mental grief, which often translates into physical problems, than would otherwise be worth it.

The second is that you think you can afford it. In either of these two instances, the desire may outweigh the resources. But you are willing to give it a try. Here are a couple of things you should consider before you make the leap.

Refinance. If you are still paying on your mortgage, while you are working is the best time to get a new deal. If the statistics hold true, you probably do not own your house. Unlike your parents, who entered retirement in full ownership of the home they lived in, you will be entering into this time-of-no-work with a mortgage hanging over your head. Get the lowest possible interest rate possible and if you can draw some of the equity, make some improvements that will make the home more liveable and in need of less maintenance.

Now you have a baseline for your shelter needs. Your car may or may not be something you will need but I’m willing to bet, you’ll want one. While the lure of a sports car or something similarly racy is appealing as you approach second youth, keep in mind that you will need to get in and out of it and so will your friends.

You still have to eat, do stuff and be entertained. If you haven’t begun tracking your budgetary needs by now, start. Now cut them by about a third. Even if you believe that you have saved enough and have enough to live on, you won’t spend as much in the fifth year of retirement as you will in the first. And ten years into it, the number will go down further. So calculating a third of what you use now will not only take into consideration your diminishing activities, but the cost of inflation, taxes and insurance (which includes health).

Understand this: You need a will to keep things out of probate. But you do not want to think of your assets as inheritable. What some planners call capital preservation is fine while you are closing in on retirement – in other words, while you are still working – but preserving capital once retired can be a foolish and costly mistake. Preserving capital for your heirs is not and should not be part of your plan. There a two things you should know. As you age, you will spend less money on leisure and more on your health. The second thing you should know: keep your risk low but if your income needs a boost, tap your capital in reserves. Each $50,000 saved will net about $500 a month (at a reasonable 5% return) for eight to nine years. That can be a real boost to your lifestyle and help with any health insurance gaps.

Understand this, part two: If you are married, one of you will die first, Regrettable but true, one spouse will survive the other and in many instances, it will be the woman. Good financial prudence and smart decisions at retirement will make this transition much easier. When calculating pension benefits or annuity decisions, do so based on the fact that your spouse will need money after you die. You may have to live on less. BUt the peace of mind will be the legacy you leave to your partner. Don’t worry about the kids. Just your spouse and his/her welfare after-the-fact.

So the bottom line is: get your home finances in order (refinance, repair, and re-evaluate), understand the constraints of fixed incomes (cars, entertainment, health concerns), be sure you have a will and make sure your kids know your finances, have met your lawyer or financial planner and are authorized to speak with them, and lastly, do what you can to stay healthy – both before you retire and after the fact. Nothing will get cheaper. But then, it never has in your lifetime. If you have to work longer, keep in mind that $50,000/5%/$500 rule, understanding that five years more work at $6,000 a year in contributions to an IRA (more to a 401(k)) will get you very close to having that amount eight years into your retirement.

All of this of course is based on the assumption that you have done your best, used your plans at work and have lived life smartly. If not, there is little time to waste.

Paul Petillo is the managing editor of Target2025.com and BlueCollarDollar.com and is a fellow Boomer